Stop Smoking !

Quitting smoking requires a lot of self-discipline and determination.
If you have tried to quit smoking, you know how hard it can be.
It's hard because nicotine is a very addictive drug--for some people, it can be as addictive as heroin or cocaine.
Good Reasons For Quitting smoking is one of the most important things you will ever do:

- You will live longer and better.
- Quitting will lower your chance of having a heart attack, stroke, or cancer.
- If you currently are or in the future become pregnant, quitting smoking will improve your chances of
having a healthy baby.
- The people you live with, especially your children, will be healthier.
- You'll be freed from feeling constrained by public policies or being the subject of popular criticism--e.g.,
restaurants, airlines, stores, office buildings and other public places that don't permit smoking; friends and
acquaintances who have minimal tolerance for cigarette smoke and don't permit smoking in their presence.
- You will have extra money to spend on things other than cigarettes.

life with 4 wives ?

There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives.

He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies.
He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.

He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men.

He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and in fact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.

Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.

One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!"

Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word.
The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart.

The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold.

He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help and you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.

Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go." The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have !"

Actually, we all have 4 wives in our lives
a. The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.
b. Our 3rd wife ? Our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others.
c. The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.
d. The 1st wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our pursuit of material, wealth and sensual pleasure.

lala 

lala - my next little barbie

nadira salsabila tamara. nickname's lala.
born on april, 15 - 2003 jakarta.
she was so sensitive, more than her sister, ayya.

on my feeling, she will be an actress.
with a strong characteristic..

lala belok

let asshole be 'the boss'

When the body was first made, all the parts wanted tobe boss. The brain said,"I should be boss because I control the whole body responses and functions." The feet said."We should be boss, as we carry the brainabout and get him to where he wants to go." The hands said," We should be the boss because we do all the work and earn all the money." And so it went with the heart, the lungs, and the eyes until finally the asshole spoke up. All the parts laughed at the idea of the asshole being the boss. So the asshole went on strike, blockeditself up and refused to work. Within a short time, the eyes became crossed, the hands clenched, the feet twitched, the heart and lungs began to panic and the brain fevered. Eventually they all decided that the asshole should bethe boss, so the motion was passed.
Management Lesson : You don't need brains to be a boss, any asshole will do.

Who is me ?

Attar dari Neishapur bercerita:

Seseorang yang sedang jatuh cinta mengetuk pintu rumah
kekasihnya. 'Siapa?' tanya sang kekasih dari dalam. 'Aku,'
kata orang itu, 'Pergi sajalah! Rumah ini tidak akan muat
untuk kau dan aku.'

Orang yang cintanya ditolak ini pergi ke padang gurun. Di
sana ia merenung selama berbulan-bulan, memikir-mikirkan
kata-kata kekasihnya. Akhirnya, ia kembali dan mengetuk
pintu rumah kekasihnya lagi.

Siapa yang mengetuk itu?, 'Engkau!'

Segera pintu dibukakan.

My New World

Yeah, it's great. This is my first home page. I'm so happy entering e-world, borderless world.
Terbayang oleh gue, my web ini bisa menjadi semacam catatan "My Own Travelling Life"
yang bisa gua share ke seluruh dunia.

Gue ingin hidup ini menjadi indah. Ingin gue catat indahnya kehidupan ini lewat my web.
So, God thanks for your grateful